All of our relationships are mirrors of our own relationship with ourselves and our God, thus spirituality becomes the source of loving one another as God loves us. The purpose of this site is to help us to become our own best friend. Therefore, the journey to make our God personal is precisely the same journey as to become our own best friend. When we accept and become comfortable with ourselves, we are then able to accept and allow others to be the way they are. Our hope is that these materials can assist you with making your lives and relationships more satisfying and meaningful.

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Tom and I met on a mountain 18 years ago. Looking back, I believe the circumstance of our meeting was symbolic of what was to come.

We all have mountains to climb. We were and continue to be quite a mixture, living proof that God works in mysterious ways. Tom was in his mid-forties, a popular teacher and priest who was "somewhat sure of himself." I was a single, 24-year old fireman/paramedic, sure I had the world in my hands.

What inspired me to do something bigger than myself was the pain that I felt when two of my dear friends committed suicide within months of each other. These tragedies were catalysts in my search for amore meaningful spirituality. I hoped somehow I could discover and share with others anything that might prevent such tragedies from happening to them.

While in the hospital, faced with death, and while confined to my bed at home, I was forced to confront myself. I was alone, afraid and in intense pain both physically and emotionally. I found that medication took away both forms of pain. It became my escape. Whenever we take the easy way, it often becomes the hard way. It made all of my problems much worse. For a while, I lived in denial, but eventually I found myself in treatment. Today, I know what it is to surrender and this process continues in order for me to gain my freedom and to find peace and serenity.

My spirituality has been forged by difficulties. Now, when I face unpleasant or difficult challenges, I believe God is within to give me strength and I am grateful to people in my life who have been supportive through my struggles. Today, Kelly and I have two beautiful children.

In the future, I hope to become a deacon in the Catholic Church and continue our ministry. I am grateful for the relationship Tom and I have had and the opportunity it has created to share how God's love works in our lives. Father Tom and I enjoyed writing God Loves An Unmade Bed together. We hope you can find spirituality from it as well.

Don Fisher